Tips for Giving Men Great Oral Sex

Author: Suie Roberts

Women's general perception of men and their cocks is, that men are always up for it and you only have to talk about his penis or slightly hint that it might see some action and it gets hard. Therefore, blowjob tips are unnecessary because as long as his cock is in your mouth he's happy - There's no such thing as a crap blowjob.

WRONG!

Admittedly it's not rocket science, but it's not quite brushing your teeth either. With a few tips and pointers, we'll make you a penis sucking genius.

As with any part of the body, once flushed with blood the nerve endings become very sensitive. Of course once the penis is erect, it is full of blood and so it has heightened sensation to touch. Only 2 men in every 1000 are able to suck their own cock, therefore it’s hardly surprising that they are all gagging for their girlfriends to do it for them. The tongue and mouth feel moist, soft and tender to the penis, not to mention it looks really horny and psychologically heightens arousal.

The Myth is that the whole of the males genitals are one huge erogenous zone - This is not true, some areas are particularly more sensitive than others.

The penis head or penis glan is the most sensitive part of the penis, so despite his desire for you to take him deeper its isn't necessary. Just under the skin of the penis glan are numerous excitable nerve endings, guys love having the cock heads licked.

The frenulum on the underside of the penis head is also very sensitive to touch.

The shaft is the least sensitive.

Although not strictly considered part of the equation for blowjobs, there is the testicles, perineum (The small patch of hairless skin between the balls and the anus), and anus; all of which are very sensitive. Stimulating through touch, sucking and licking, one or all of these during a blow job can up grade you from being a good cock sucker to a great cock sucker.

Blowjob Do's
Make lots of yummy moaning noises as if your sucking a bar of chocolate - They love you to love it.

Give him a titwank (Let him slide his cock inside your squashed together breasts) Lick his penis glan as it pops out the top of your boobs.

Do Lick. Long lollypop licks up the shaft of his penis as his excitement builds flicker your tongue around the ridge of his penis (Where the head meets the shaft) and licks his Jap's eye (Urethra opening)

Do keep your teeth behind your lips unless otherwise specifically requested otherwise.

When you take his cock into your mouth make sure there's lots of saliva, wet feels sexy

Cover your teeth with your lips and apply pressure to the shaft as you pump. Swirl your tongue about! The more energetic your tongue is whilst he's in your mouth the better! If he's not anal phobic, a well-lubricated finger in the anus stimulating his G-spot creates WOW factor to a climax - you're sure to be amply rewarded for such a grand finally. It also makes men come quicker, (just in case your ever sick of waiting or short of time)

Smearing cream, ice cream syrup or Flavoured Lubricant to his penis spices things up.

Hold eye contact whist you suck him off. This is really sexy. Strategically placed mirrors help with this and also give him alternative views.

If you want to deep throat your lover but want to avoid gagging - Lay on the bed with your head just hanging off the side of the bed and let him thrust into your mouth. Because your head is right back it doesn't make you gag. He will love it because he can visually see you deep throating his cock.

Add some extra eroticism by adding a power play element. Tie him to the bed and take him, tell him how your gonna make his cock burst Or kneel on the floor at his feet and be a submissive cock sucking slave.

Make feel like a porn star. Let him video or take digital photographs of you blowing him.

Wear a strong coloured lipstick (Scarlet red is good) Be sure to leave lips marks on his cock and balls.

Get him to read an erotic story from an Erotic Novel or a wank mag. Make him read aloud.

Let him see that you are playing with yourself as you suck him off.

Blowjob Don'ts
Men like to be teased too, so you shouldn't even touch his cock until it is cock hard. Tease him first, lick up the inside of his thighs, rub yourself up against him, put your boobs in his face, caress your breasts - show him how horny your are.

If it makes you gag don't try to deep throat, it's the head of the penis that is the most sensitive anyway. Put your hand around the base of the penis to control the depth of which he enters your mouth and wank him whilst giving oral, bringing your hand up to meet your lips on their way down.

If you don't like the taste you don't have to swallow. Get him to cum over your face, neck or breasts. This is very visual and can be a lot hornier, although more messy.

Don't centre all of your attentions on his cock. Lick, suck and stroke his anus, perineum and testicles.

Don't worry about making slurping noises - noise is good.

Don't change the rhythm when he's close to coming (unless you want to delay his climax) Keep at the same steady pace and increase the sexy moaning noises.

Don't just do the bobbing up and down thing! Swirl your head as you lips slide up and down his cock - not only doesn't this feel good but it also make you look horny, like a cock sucking expert.

Despite what they think and say men's aims are pretty lousy. Don't get sperm in your eyes. It doesn't sting but it does make your eyes very blood shot for around 24 hours.